WHEN LOVE IS NO LONGER SERVED

                In the bit to be scared of being alone people are beginning  to stay in places they had earlier or probably never bargained for, that is why people mistake being enslaved, disrespected and taken for granted as love and because they mourn their singleness hence they believe that having a partner would  make them complete thus making them anchor somewhere by all means and its crazy.            
             The other day i saw a post a woman put up on facebook saying that even if her man beats her to pulp that she is still better those that  are single that at least she has a man , now  with women like that in our society men would begin to believe that hitting a woman is a norm thus increasing the number of domestic violence cases  and that is because the likes of this kind of women has refused to see that love is no longer served. Now domestic violence is not the only sign to know when love is no longer served but if you ask me i would say its the height of it as you can not even hide it because of how glaring it can be.
           The sad truth is that is most people get into a relationship and loose it all and i mean all their PRIDE, SELF WORTH, SELF ESTEEM, along side every form of reasoning they ever had all in the bit to trying to keep a relationship that cant even keep them, they are scared to break free because of the crazy idea that they cant get something better and some even act like they will die if their partner say they are no longer intrested.
          In my own opinion and in conclusion of the whole matter i would say the next time you want to get into a new relationship make sure you must have built a solid relationship with yourself, fall in love with yourself and spoil yourself silly because when you do this you can tell when love is no longer served.
          You must also note that the moment you begin to continually make excuses for your partner after they use you, abuse you, mistreat you and disrespect you in  any form probably after you may have forgiven them more than once then please its time to leave that table because love is no longer served else it can DAMAGE you.......