MOVING ON

 

LIFE is fickle, here today and there tomorrow but humans largely  fear the challenges that comes with life, challenges like moving environments, outgrowing friends, breaking up relationships or even marriages. some people dread living life so much that they would rather be fixated or stuck with whatever appears great without vetting it. ( lol, fear fear people)

Growing up i would judge people, i called some greedy/big eyed etc. but as an adult now, I take back my words as i salute and greet them specially. I mean looking back all i now see were people who were navigating through life via different routes and yes some of them might not have taken or made the best of decision at the time but they were also quick to learn and jump ship. They didn't stay fixated, now that was STRENGHT they choose to fight  irrespective of whatever life threw at them and i am lowkey so proud of how beautiful life has turned out for them and so amazed at how their big eyes has brought them the finest of life's offering.

Now imagine learning to walk away and moving on from people. Imagine learning to understand that people come into our lives for different reasons, seasons and purposes.... to tell you how solid  understanding seasons is, it had to be backed up biblically  ( Ecclesiastes 3 ; 2)

Normalize moving on silently when things don't work out the way you planned. learn to understand people's seasonings and timing in your life, I need you to understand that its not everyone who will be with you till the end of time. so don't force people who want to move on from you to stay, you maybe limiting yourself and holding them back as well from finding their purpose...  If it happens that they move on without your notice still let them go, stop delaying moving on yeye phrase ''I NEED CLOSURE'' understand  when someone thinks they want to start living without you, when you understand seasons  there would be no need to beg people to stay or want to prove that they need you in their lives, in my opinion its rubbish. Don't also get into dragging or subbing of any sort, you are a whole package, A KING/ QUEEN someone's entire prayer point.

So dear KING/QUEEN learn to realize that everything and almost everyone has their season in your life, learn to be intune with your spirit and know when to allow peoples season end as painful as it can be most times.