Being A Lady

    

   Often times  I have always heard the young females refer to themselves as ladies without some of them even knowing the true definition of the word lady. this  has got me thinking because if some of these young females know the actual meaning of the word ‘’LADY’’. they would just shut up and stop being silly by referring to their selves as  ladies.

          In actual sense a lady is referred to as a woman of high social standing or refinement, especially when viewed as dignified or well mannered. Now having known this some young girls should stop referring to them selves as ladies if  they are guilty of the following things;

• 1.  If they don’t self explore -  If you wait for a man to always take you out because you are stingy even to yourself. You are even afraid to spoil your selves  a little, as some of these young girls even refer to these small self pampering  as waste so they always look forward to meeting magas where as they forget that in the bit to letting a guy do certain things for you , you may be giving him free access to your panties so  hey ladies step up because there is a thin line between savings and stinginess..

• 2.  I need a generous man - These category of ladies are all about a guy’s money thus they follow every tom dick and harry as long as they see the cash.they will say no time for dulling, thus they reason they go through alot of things and give you the line of its better to cry in a benz than on an okada. they don’t even care where these guys get their money from as long as they have the latest and finest of things and are seen as being on point.

• 3.  The fine girls - For these fine girls dressing up to the nines, fresh done nails , hair straight from the saloon is all they need and of course nudity is their calling. They are always on the move and their dresses are always loud, their picture places are usually hotel rooms and they are usually not exactly dressed. they are never fully dressed or covered as a lady should be and for the very loud ones if you ask them why they are dressed the way they are dressed they would say   Abeg allow me sell my market o

• 4. The models; Hmmm you did not hear this one from me o, but this is said to be the new trend, these girls live in the high brow areas of the big cities drive very expensive cars and when asked what they do this is what you will hear ‘’AM INTO MODELLING AND USHERING’’ AKA RUNS  I hear that these ladies services some big ogas and in most cases they snatch each other’s client and I hear they do a lot of things to keep the maga paying……

           So biko if you do all of the above make sure not to call yourself a lady, but if you want to be called a lady you should do or be the following ;

• Be Responsible
• Be Independent
• Be Prayerful
• Be Homely
• Be God fearing

So young females the next time you choose to call yourself a lady think twice..